viernes, julio 04, 2008

Teenagers, basketball and books.



A lot of friends have accused me of liking teenagers too much. And well... i have to confess it, it's true. Some weeks ago an american team came to my town, and i ejoyed very much the time i spent with them. Now i am pretty sure that one of the main reasons of this was that most of them were teenagers.

But there is a logic reason why i like so much to spend time with them. And this doesn't mean i just enjoy my time when i am in their company. I also enjoy time spent with other people. But what i have discovered about teenagers is that their lack of maturity helps them not to take life so seriously. That means that when i start saying silly things without thinking about them before opening my mouth... they don't get upset!!!

They just think that is one more silly thing in life they don't have to take so seriously... laugh... and continue with their lifes without judging me because of that little moment of madness. Older people can't do that. They get upset with anything silly that i say, take it seriously, think about it, and judge me. There are some close friends with whom i can say silly things and nothing happens. This ones have also the advantage that i can talk about more serious things knowing they are enough mature to advice me. Probably with them i can be myself more that with anybody else.

Then it comes basketball... wich i am missing this summer cause i can just play once every two weeks. What i like about it is... well... because i am not as bad as playing football. That's one reason. The other reason why i always look foward for the next day when i'll play basketball, apart from meeting those nice guys i have mentioned before in my blog, are the concrete rules.

Basketball is easy. Has concrete and simple rules. You have to throw the orange ball trough the ring. You can't travel more than two steps without bouncing, etc... Is a known rectangular world, no surprises. You don't have to think more than to whom you will pass or when you will shoot. The options are finite. You have no more than 4 possibilities to pass... I like that... not to think, just play... time flows... while you're in that tiny little world, enjoying the game.

Books are also a rectangular world. But they permit me to be anyone... in anyworld. Probably that's one reason i like sci-fi books so much. They not just aloud me to be anyone at anytime... anywhere in this world. They also make me wonder what would be to live in other dimensions, planets, worlds... When i'm reading this world stays behind, while my mind can travel free...


Teenagers, basketball and books have always been like an emotional vaccation... some kind of places where i feel more free... where i feel more like being myself... or like being what i would like to be, how i would like to be.

3 comentarios:

Anónimo dijo...

.. the cat in the picture is really powerful ;)
i love teenagers, they are crazy.. sometimes i must think, dammit.. they are silly, but this silliness is sth very, very nice and lovely.. and sometimes this natural silliness and craziness is sth i miss a lot..
adults are afraid of teenagers as they can be difficult to handle, to understand, and most of all - to control (sth what the adults really love.. hahahah xDD )..
i have found a key to these problems.. as long as the adult tries to understand the crazy teen, be nice and supportive, nothing bad happens..
the maturity sometimes is a good thing to have ;)
hahaha..
anyway, teenagers and books really are great possibilities to escape the reality, to get inspired by sth or sb and finally even undertake sth one would never ever do under other circumstances...

Anónimo dijo...

Esteban eres unico! me hace gracia que te disfrutes tanto de los adolescentes porque no se toman la vida tan en serio, supongo que es el perfecto equilibrio para ti!
Besos
Belinda

Anónimo dijo...

Es que los teenagers molamos :)